Gone Home

This morning my brother went home to God. He died peacefully, at home as he had wished. My sister was with him. She had cared so well for him these past few months and he was so grateful. But he was grateful, truly grateful for everyone who came to see him, to visit, to care for him.

I saw him last night via FaceTime. He didn’t look good. That’s an understatement. I could barely understand him. But before we said… Come to think of it, we didn’t say goodbye. As we ended our conversation I said simply “I love you.” And clear as a bell, through the pain and morphine he replied “Love you too, man.”

A priest came to see him. Many priests had been to see him. He gave him last rites, Viaticum, and an apostolic pardon. 

When my mom called to tell me this morning she said “All I ever wanted was for my children to go to heaven.”

I’d say she’s four for four. 

Rest in peace, brother. I love you. 


6 responses to “Gone Home

  1. So sorry for your loss. Saying a prayer for your family during this difficult time.

  2. God grant your brother eternal life with Him in Heaven, and give you, your mother and father and your entire family His consolation. Remembering all in my prayers.

  3. As you know, Harvey, I was with your brother last night, and I can promise you he was in good spirits, comfortable, and at peace.

  4. hugs and peace….sending love and prayers at this sad time…yet spiritually beautiful time as well …for he is with God with your other siblings….

  5. Reblogged this on Harvey Millican: Raising Your Kids Without Lowering Your IQ and commented:

    My brother would have turned 54 today. Here is what I posted two years ago on the day he died.

    Rest in peace, Richard.

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